From Nappies to Toileting: A Journey of Success

Within this blog we share a five year olds struggle with toileting, only pooing at home, in a nappy. This shares how progress is possible


When a family reached out for help with their five year old daughter, they were feeling stuck and overwhelmed. The young girl was only pooing at home in a nappy, standing and refusing to sit on the toilet. At school, she held in her poos all day, experiencing discomfort and frustration. The family were unsure of where to start or how to help their daughter move forward, feeling like they had "tried everything".


Through a step by step approach, Charmaine at Clear Steps Consultancy worked closely with the young girl, her family, and her school. Together, uncovering the underlying reasons behind her challenges and used visual tools to help her understand what to do. A consistent plan between home and school ensured she felt safe and supported. Gradually, she built the confidence to sit on the toilet, and with time, stopped wearing nappies altogether.


Today this amazing young girl is confidently passing poos in the toilet every day, a true success! Her family shared:

"We just wanted to say thankyou so much. It all made so much sense once we understood what the issues were. Thankyou so much for the support and guidance, you've been amazing!"

This story is a powerful reminder that progress is possible, even when the challenges feel overwhelming. With the right support, children can overcome toileting difficulties and thrive. 


Where do we start in heling your child who is only pooing in a nappy? 

We can start, by identifying "your" child's "poo pattern". Keeping track and identifying "what" your child's Poo type and pattern is, is not always easy. That's why here at Clear Steps Consultancy we have an easy to use approach to help:

A Monitoring chart: Where to start in getting the PEE & Poo in the loo! using the Bristol Stool Chart

Charmaine, at Clear Steps Consultancy supports children with and without a diagnosis, additional needs, their families, schools, organisations, charities and professionals internationally, in progressing and being successful with Toileting, Sleeping and Understanding Behaviour.  

Help and support is available!

Where are you on your child's poo journey?

Start helping your child, with support today!"



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    Categories: : Poo, Pooing in a Nappy, Sensory needs and toileting, Toileting, toileting problems, understanding, toileting sucess, step by step support, visual support

    From Nappies to Toileting: A Journey of Success